And are you surprised looking back on it?

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    As a teen nieghbor had a girl stay over the summer. We hung out on her enclosed porch in lawn chairs.

    Her: wanna give me head?

    Me: sure.

    Her: I’m not wearing panties. (Wearing a short skin tight dress)

    Me: (causally lifts her leg up and start)

    After a bit.

    Her: Got a condom?

    We fucked right there. Even did doggy with her at the window. We hooked up a few more times after that. Yeah that was a fun summer.


    I personally don’t use pick up lines.

    As a teenager on a bus ride I was talking to a guy friend about talking to girls and pickup lines.

    Saw two girls at the front of the bus. They hugged and one got off. I said something along the lines of “dude just go for it. You miss all the shots you don’t take”

    So as a demonstration I walked up to the girl and said “hey, are you up for chatting a bit?” Then I sat two seats away and we talked for 10-15 minutes until she got off. Turns out her friend was moving away and she was saying farewell. I didn’t try to get a number and wished her well.

    Sat back with my boy and he asked “how did you do that? What line did you use?”
    I told him I didn’t use a line. Just asked if we could chat and we talked. I listened and had a conversation.

    Thats worked several times for me. No pickup lines. Just strike up a conversation with a relevant topic or complement.

    Last time was at the beach. I just walked up to two women and asked about thier beach umbrella.

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      19 hours ago

      Being me I would’ve been like “yo that’s a nice umbrella” and then walk away. How did you strike up that conversation?

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        8 hours ago

        I asked them where they got the thing to hold the umbrella straight up and transitioned to sharing struggles of beach gear. It was a bit humor with me chasing an umbrella tossed by the wind. Then books and a few other things.