11/19/22(Sat)07:22:13 No.71045408
>Tfw boyfriend is asleep 
Why does he do this? Every fucking night?

11/19/22(Sat)07:25:16 No.71045429
>tells me he's not addicted to sleeping 
>goes insane if he doesn't get his daily fix 
>shouts at me for trying to keep him from 
relapsing
  • ryedaft@sh.itjust.works
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    1 day ago

    Eh, I’ve heard of some men that never got up in the night to deal with the baby / kids. I can understand how a partner could be driven to the brink by that.

    • Alteon@lemmy.world
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      That’s totally an older generation thing. My father refuses to change diapers unless he’s the only one there. The grandfather brags that he never changed a diaper in his life. Yeah…that stopped with my generation.

      Most millennial guys that I know are more invested in their kids. They change them, they wake with them, they play with them, they feed them. I don’t understand why older men frowned upon it like it was some sort of horrible thing to take care of your own kids. Toxic masculinity is such a fragile, yet destructive thing.