11/19/22(Sat)07:22:13 No.71045408
>Tfw boyfriend is asleep 
Why does he do this? Every fucking night?

11/19/22(Sat)07:25:16 No.71045429
>tells me he's not addicted to sleeping 
>goes insane if he doesn't get his daily fix 
>shouts at me for trying to keep him from 
relapsing
  • steeznson@lemmy.world
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    This is incredibly specific and I’ve never encountered the women-hating-men-sleeping phenomenon before.

    Do you sleep walk or something? How did you manage to upset them so much while nominally being unconscious? Your post has puzzled me.

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        Holy shit, people are nuts. I didn’t realise it was tied into toxic gender roles like that when I saw OP’s comment at first. It seems like these people are stuck in unhappy marriages/long term relationships and their partners want to hurt them in a societally acceptable way.

        Edit: The youtuber is definitely pandering to a specific niche I suppose. I think other women would call her a “pick-me”. Not that it invalidates what she says but seemed noteable.

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      If I tried to sleep longer than my ex-wife, she would “clean” very loudly in the bedroom until I got up. Conversely if I didn’t want to go to bed the same time she did, she got super butthurt.

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        Yeah ok that is mental. I can see why she is an ex.

        Edit: Just realised you aren’t the OP commenter… is this really a common thing? The internet is eye-opening

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          Some people are insane and unfortunately it’s a little too common to allow them to stay in your life.

          In Norway I’ve heard a lot of threats of buckets of cold water to wake up a “syvsover”. In not sure if I was threatened with it or subjected to it once, I’m 30 and my childhood is a little hazy.