• kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    At this point we have to contend with small wins like Die Linke getting almost 10% of the vote in Germany, Elon Musk getting bullied out of politics, and Carney winning in Canada.

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    I think they’ve got it the wrong way around. The under 40s have a chance of rebuilding after the war. Yes, there are hard times ahead but they are young enough to come out on the other side.

    At 49, I’m quite sure I either won’t make it through the coming storm at all or at least won’t be able to enjoy the aftermath for long once things get better again.

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      The under 40s are going to be the ones fighting the wars, as always. Even if there is an other side for humanity after what’s coming, no one alive today will ever have a peaceful life ever again.

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        I’ll take prison or a bullet to the head before I decide to fight for a nation that has pulled the rug out from underneath me.

        I hope more young people see it this way, maybe we’ll actually get to a point where we can watch all these leaders duke it out in person because no one will fight for them

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          Wait til they hand you the gun, play good boy til they let you touch the weapons

          Then, aim them at the most superior officers possible and open fire indiscriminately

          You do the world a favor and are likely to have your end come suddenly from a direction you don’t see

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      Who are the positive role models? Weve got all these young guys watching sniveling cucks like andrew taint

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      I know a surprisingly large amount of MAGA/Trump adjacent fans because of my type of work.

      • They’re all single dudes. Maybe divorced. Maybe never went on a date.
      • There’s Joe Rogan involved.
      • After a few beers, they all will unprompted share their views on Jews, blacks, trans, lesbians, or some other racist shit then back off and pretend it’s just a joke.
      • Tell them anything involving empathy “Sorry your dog died” is met with silence or coldness.
      • They all don’t give a shit about anybody else besides themselves. And often see themselves as the victim. “Oh Trans person was brutally beaten? Yeah it’s a violent world like one time some guy threatened me gotta stay strapped.”
      • They may not like Trump’s antics. But to them, the Democrats aren’t helping THEM. Remember that lack of empathy?
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      They misattribute monetary policy that bids up home and asset values using cheap debt and facilitates massive bailouts with federal government policy. The CPI doesnt include asset prices so cheap debt can flood into asset prices without slowing down the devaluation of their salary, it also does subjective inflation deductions to goods based on perceived quality changes, and excludes much of the shrinkflation thats happens to goods and service quality.

      Something as basic like getting support for a flight is now talking to a chatbot with perpetually larger than expected call volume, you pay extra for seating, you pay extra for baggage; and your seat is so small now you also may as well be standing. Free range chickens used to just be called chicken, and eggs could be eaten uncooked since they werent swimming in ecoli, but according to the CPI you’re significantly better off now; so the nominal value of a boomers house is now worth significantly more due to all this perceived wealth.

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      This is the saddiest shit ever. Young men being angry at the « Men » will vote for the men that will sold them to the bone mill in a heart beat.

      There’s a Turkish proverb : and the forest vote for the axe because they where made of the same wood

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    Expectation is the main ingredient to disappointment. All you have to do is lower your expectations to where the bar is, so when good things do happen, it’ll feel better when they do.

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    A while ago, I was talking to my mum and offhandedly said that I’d have to move north at some point in my life, due to climate change. For me, that’s just a given, with record hottest summers coming in regularly and current summers already incapacitating me for weeks at a time.

    But my mum’s reaction was basically “What’s this about now?”. She’s lived in her childhood town or close-by for basically her whole life. And she’s old enough that she doesn’t have to worry about the aftermath. But yeah, that was still brutal, how different our realities were in that regard.

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    I’m over 40 and struggling not to conclude life on this planet peaked 30 years ago

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    I landed a job a job at a company that’s circling the drain, I feel like a parasite feeding off a host until it’s gone and I move to a new one

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      I’m a public librarian. Just dreading the day we are defunded. They’ve already attacked our national orgs.

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        Maybe this varies geographically, but our town’s libraries are directly funded by the town. We recently improved a millage for renovations. I hope they would be pretty insulated from… sillyness.

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          Most libraries also have significant federal funding, and rely on resources maintained with federal funding, even if state and local funding is higher

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            Absolutely this. Our federal money actually comes through the state org which takes care of a whole bunch of stuff like our inter library loans and access to Kanopy/Libby.

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          In the US, I blame a lot of this in public education. So much American Exceptionalism hard coded into generations and if you question any of it, you get put down by the other students and teachers.

          I envied the education of developing nations because those school systems acted like they had something to prove with their students.

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            Please don’t blame this on public education, wholesale. I get that there are plenty of issues with public education, but there are teachers, departments, entire schools, and entire districts that put kids and their ability to realistically navigate the real world. I’ve worked with many teachers would would (and have) told politicians to fuck off than keep their teaching cert by abandoning their beliefs.

            I’m proud to have worked for years in a school where teachers were comfortable telling students that American exceptionalism is a lie and that blindly believing anything different is a quick way to fall behind.

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              What the hell does “realistically navigate the real world” mean anymore. I had teachers, therapists, and guidance counselors all working to make sure I had a safe and useful education. Meaning, because I was misdiagnosed, that they would never risk my unhappiness(or their metrics) by allowing me in classes there I might fail because, by their own words, “if you fail at that class, you may be unhappy”. Fuck that shit. I succeed at their goals, not mine and I’m miserable.

              I called up my old school recently to try and get them to send me a document stating that because I never fulfilled the basic state requirements, I did not actually graduate. They refused, but accidentally admired that I tested proficient in science, but was still placed in remedial classes. I doubt they think I remember those meetings in grade school, but I do. I remember being calmly explained that I would do better in this class or that class, but they never really explained what “practical” or “modified” or “academic” meant. I remember those meetings. When I talked to my school, I could tell they weren’t expecting me to remember the day we took the HSPA test and how I was pulled out of the regular students and placed in the remedial area despite being told I was declassified or how I shouldn’t have passed because I deliberately failed the writing section. It’s all fucking theater. They’ve been passing everyone for decades regardless of merit and now this country is a joke.

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          I have 'iterally been saying to my classes (especially as my various NIH/NSF/.gov links are breaking during class) “pretend nothing is happening outside the walls of this school, just for a few minutes”.

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      Absolutely know the feeling

      When I quit a few years ago are my last employer, I was thinking, I’m the rat leaving the sinking ship

      Fucking card house still hasn’t collapsed somehow and old employer is now my main customer.
      So…not much changed, besides that I don’t have much security anymore

      But hey! Illusion of freedom, when being self employed! ;⁠-⁠)

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      Plenty of my gen X friends have come to accept that they will never retire like the boomers. A lot of millennials never thought they would.

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    My parents just stopped watching the news about anything and just sit thinking everything will be okay. Its starting to get difficult to have a relationship with them because they are so out of touch with reality. They even go to protests but for them its just a thing to go do because they’re not doing anything else. They have zero understanding of any of the reasons they’re happening other than trump bad.

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      In effect the relative lack of news back in the day was how people could feel optimistic, at least in the US and Western Europe. We could be pretty oblivious and happy about USSR going away and all seemed just fine because the news barely covered the bad stuff and the Internet was barely a thing and we didn’t get a whole lot of global exposure.

      Things can get better and we have to work at it, but we don’t need to be hopeless. If we can’t believe good things can happen, then what would be the point anyway…

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      Idk man, I’d kill just to have mine agree on the trump bad part. You do you, but tuning out our shit news cycle is low on the offense scale for me. It can be much worse.

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        I understand it could be way worse, that doesn’t mean this is good. I’m the one that told them about tariffs, I’m the one that told them about the market crash and how they just lost 20% of their retirement savings. I’m the one that just got laid off. They simply do not believe that things are so bad and going to get so much worse. And its only been 100 days. They think everything will be back to normal once the next Democrat is elected president. I told them I genuinely don’t know if the US in its current form is going to exist in 10 years and they didn’t even think about it, just said yes it will. There is so much I would have to explain to them for them to grasp the reality of our current situation, but they don’t care. When they stop getting their social security payments they’re going to be genuinely shocked because they haven’t paid a single clue into what the magat regime laid out in project 2025 and are carrying out without opposition.

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        My Mom is so disappointed that my kids are not active, do not goto protests. She wants to leave a better world for them but is no longer able to help make that happen, so needs to see her grandchildren turn the world around.

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      over 50 and felt this way for over half the millenia and before that felt it likely to be that way given how things were going.

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    Wait, your parents don’t understand that everybody under 40 has the same outlook on life? What a pair of idiots.