• madjo@feddit.nl
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    1 month ago

    Well when men keep hearing “don’t approach us”, we shouldn’t be shocked when men don’t approach people.

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      1 month ago

      Cry me a river. I’ve never heard a women say “don’t approach me”, but I’ve heard many say “don’t be a douche” and “stop thinking you’re a fucking victim”.

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          1 month ago

          The fact that yall are still this mad about this just proves that the entire point behind the thought experiment is right.

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          IDK women are not scared of me. Maybe the problem is you? Maybe you’re not the victim you think you are and you’re just an ass?

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              1 month ago

              Geez you incels are stupid. Between victims like you and wannabe “alpha males” who wanna jerk one another, I agree mens are now a bunch of losers who wont ever get laid.

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          Apparently you already forgot their reasoning behind it. A bear is a known quantity. Humans can lie to gain your trust, then turn on you. They weren’t saying all men are bad, they were saying that meeting a stand man alone in the woods - you have no idea how this person will act.

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      1 month ago

      At the same time, lots of men are really shitty when they “approach” women.

      “Don’t approach us” is a response to men’s behaviour, not the other way around.

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          1 month ago

          Very incel-y, but sure.

          Or, you could take it as a statement with the subtext that it clearly has, which is “dont approach us if youre going to be an asshole.”

          If you would rather stew in bitterness than adjust to the above, the first option is likely better for everyone.

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            I think if women meant that they would say it instead of “never approach women”

            Blaming men for listening to women is some new level of crazy

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              Your inability to understand nuance might be part of the problem. Having to explain every single exception spelled out literally takes too long to get the guy acting creepy away from them.

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                1 month ago

                You haven’t explained anything, you just keep shitting out the same response hoping you’ll shame me into going away.

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                  Yeah, because you’re drowning in self-pity instead of understanding that men are the problem in the vast majority of cases. You’re bitching around instead, that’s typical incel behavior.

                  You can go up to a woman and flirt with her - just don’t be an asshole and accept a “no” without crying or further harassing her ;) It’s really not hard. Most appreciate it.