I grew up in a Swedish pentecostal church so my experience in vows are more coloured by experience from that denomination rather than catholic tv

Then you shouldn’t use that phrase in the marriage vows, that’s the issue. If you don’t promise the forever, you are not failing the promise

I am always terrified of meeting moose while hiking, especially with calves. I didn’t know they specced into the terror tree against humans but it does explain it!