You are ignorant of the genetic factors at play here and I think you need to realize that your rhetoric is identical to victim blaming eugenics ideology. You sound like RFK Jr. and I’m guessing you would want me dead if you could have things that way. It’s honestly despicable and I don’t know how people like you sleep at night.
I followed Mel when she thought she was cis and also while she thought she was non-binary and I can confirm that her journey is a lot like mine and that the egg prime directive does seem like bullshit to me because I would not have tried estrogen if people had not said hey you can just do that if you want to try it