“I discovered a new bird, and you will not believe what this fluffy little guy did to me!”

you can’t be attached to the child until they’re old enough to display personality, which comes way later than the toddler stage; I ha just can’t see myself having any attachment before their personality develops

If that’s how you feel, then that’s how you feel. I’m gonna hazard a guess that the vast majority of people, especially pregnant/miscarriage/parents do not feel this way.

My oldest brother was born in 1990.

This is fucking with me

We took our pup to see her mother at around 8 months. The moon didn’t recognize her anymore I guess, and didn’t like other female dogs and chased her under a table leaving our dog cowering and shaking. Was not the reunion we all expected